Finding Friends through Faith

Today, as I felt the warm sun on my face, I stepped onto the soft sandy beach and began my prayer walk. The Prayer was titled "A Prayer when you don't have friends." I pondered by-passing the prayer as I thought, I have lots of friends and great friends; I knew though, that the prayer had been placed in my inbox for a reason. I continued to listen to what the Prayer had to teach me, and I realized, it was a time of renewal, a reminder to "flex forwards" and be grateful for my current season.

Have you ever noticed that loneliness can sneak up on you, even when surrounded by people? It's a strange sensation, feeling invisible in a crowd, unheard in conversation, and uninterested in what others find amusing. I know that feeling all too well. I spent years in that place, drifting through new jobs and networking events, haunted by an inner critic who whispered I didn't belong. I was terrified of small talk because my reality was anything but small. My life was consumed with the struggle to improve myself, to rise above the physical and emotional pain that seemed to define me. I feared that if I spoke my truth, it would cast a shadow over the lighthearted exchanges around me. So, I kept quiet, nodded, and smiled, while yearning for a deeper connection, a place where I truly belonged.

That place emerged when I began walking my most purposeful path—when I started my walk with the Lord. On this journey, I found a sense of belonging, not just in the world, but in my body. Opportunities and connections began to flow into my life, not because I was surrounded by more people, but because I was surrounded by His love. I felt a friendship with God that was more fulfilling than any superficial conversation. It makes me wonder now if I were to engage in small talk, would others see something different in me? Perhaps they would sense a depth and peace that invites them to explore something more meaningful.

My faith was tested a few weeks ago. I was back in the City for a networking event. I adorned a smart corporate jacket and trousers—the very outfit I once used to hide behind. A suit can make a statement, it may offer a sense of importance or self-worth, but for me, it had been just a plaster, a facade to the emotions, that lay deep inside. On this occasion, I relinquished the persona of the suit. As I walked into the meeting, knowing no one, I had no fear of small talk. I had so much to share. I had been blessed with opportunities and found joy through adversity. In fact, in my absence from the Corporate world, I had my story published and became a six-time international best-selling author. I had stood on a stage, and spoken in front of others I had never met. I had fulfilled my innate message in my heart, and spoken on an International stage. I stood in front of people who not only listened they chose to come and hear. As I walked into the networking meeting, knowing no one, I felt no fear of small talk. Instead, I was eager to share the blessings and joy I had found through adversity.

In those three years, I had achieved milestones I never imagined. My core character and values hadn't changed; they remained steadfast to my purpose. What had transformed was how I showed up—authentically, without fear of what might come out of my mouth. I had no inner critic speaking narratives that I was lesser than anyone. The darkness and negativity that once lingered had drifted away, like a ship on the horizon; and if those waves ever return, I now have the tools to silence the storm and the Lord would steer my course with confidence. My faith guides me, and I trust that what I speak is my truth and reality.

My message is for anyone who feels empty or alone, even in a crowd. When I left the corporate world and stepped into the unknown, I had to surrender and trust that God’s plans were far greater than I could have designed for myself. 

Stepping out in Faith, even when it's scary, is often the path to freedom. The people God wants us to love and connect with are often right in front of us, waiting for us to walk the path He has set for us. We just need to open our eyes and ears and choose the right path.

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